Yeh Kya Family hain Yaar..!! ;)

                 I should start this post only with a biggggggg HA HA HA for those who think ,What I am going to mention is highly impossible or utter stupidity.some may think ,this is one "no need"criteria at this age.but some things(rules) are always an exception for an "utter stupid" case like me.Thought I can upload my views in to the mind of some  "non-existing" characters,turning it in to "once upon a time there lived a radha.."type.But why there is a need for radha, when the character which owns the royality for these thoughts is still alive typing down all this.Well,its one among those dead night discussions.But this time..err,Its on life partners.For all those who wonder,Is it really such an important thing to discuss in the mid past night,I can say,Discussing on soren and BJP or Obama and Wall street or Next CM of tamilnadu is in noway going to give a clean chit to those problems...atleast,Its more worth to discuss about future than all those unsolvable.It started this way,she was telling something about her friend's serious search for a life partner and about the kind of person he is expecting for and How family life is turning in to one parliament session nowadays .My friend said She desperately wanna attend the marriage of some three persons in her life,One that friend of hers,another its me (oh!!God..) followed by one class mate of ours..the talk was on what kinda life partner we will be expecting for?!,Well I was telling her that the only thing I will be expecting from my partner is being truthful.Its not that the person should be one half-sibling of harishchandra.Then,Truthful in the sense?!!..err,let him smoke If he wish,let him drink If he want to ,let him sight even the worst figure in the whole world,but its just that I should be knowing his favourite brand name,its just that I should be knowing what attracted him the most in that girl ;).She said,what am talking about is just like watching the movie "sillunu oru kaadhal".No way!!Its something my life,Its should be unique,why should i be living a cinematic life?Why should I be a kundhavi,rather Am just an aishwarya,n this is what my way of thinking towards life..Come on,No one in the world can be Rama,infact he himself can't be one!.Just point out at person who had never even seen a girl before his marriage,Then i will accept my way of thinking is wrong..Err,the next question "what will you do if that person wish to go with another girl,at one point of life?".well,here is my reply,I will say "yes"!!.She,"on what basis?!"..Me "first of all,I will try to find out whether its a normal lust or really he finds something different in her,If that is lust,I will try to make that person realize it or if it is the next option ,he fits in to,My answer will be ,yes!!". Wait!!I think you readers for sure as of by now will be googling for a suitable label to tag the disease am suffering from :).PJs apart,well a question may arise,will this be possible when it comes to a practical case?!.But,what else does matters for a "Wonderful FAMILY life" than understanding your partner completely.If you gonna think ,it sounds like those stupid "sacrifice" concept that those age old characters in those "puraanas" did.All I can say is,may be that is where the chemistry of relationship lies.Come on yaar,how can you really enjoy the life and sense it in each and every nerve of yours,when its is not the Real "YOU" who is living it..That "YOU" is there in everyone but its just that the people always thinks of it only as "ME and MINE".Not all the times the mind will think from others point of view when it comes to a problem involving themself.

(P.S) For all those mind ,which think like,Is she really behind someone to write to this extent of 'stupidity'?

Ans:Its not that the the mind need always an experience to write on something,at times a simple but deep thinking will do.For a mind with passion over thoughts there is no boundaries:).

The S'h'ivam..

Its Really after such a long time,I heard the song "Yaar,Yaar Sivam!!(Who in this real world can be referred as  God!?)",from my favorite movie "Anbae Sivam (Love Is God!!)"..As usual the place I was sitting, was lawn(U can guess the aftermath of me being in lawn ;)),and I was totally jobless..So to make proper use of the time I started thinking on that word "Anbae Sivam!!"..What is Love?!What is the exact meaning behind that four letter word?.Here am going to say nothing on all those "hormonal happenings"between opposite sex,rather about a treasure left behind, forgotten in the sands of time,"Humanity".Though we speak about all those Anti-war,peace,humanity etc in number of "stages",the speech will always end up like"So you people of democratic country,kindly do vote for us to overcome all this..blah blah","Arey!buddhu,first of all go and treat your mom as one human,then we will give you the mic for lullaby".The Humanity,Its there the when a kid volunteer to give his/her smallest of pencil to the one sitting next.Its there when a woman volunteer to become a surrogate for some precious thing she never gonna see after.Its there when you stand up and give space for some old man to sit ..But,tell me the truth,Here how many of us having a proper bond atleast with the neighbour next door,except for the cup of sugar and coffee powder.This weird world knows better how to tag everything.If you volunteer to be a surrogate,the world will see you just as a person who will do anything for money.If you give space for an old man,sure a person standing next by will say"We can believe no one these days sir,why you left your seat for that innocent-by-look budda".The Human fails in their thoughts here,Its Just because that moral studies classes turned out to be one weekend sleeping hour,during their school days.These people nowadays are ready to spend tonnes and tonnes of money to fill the hundi of some "aanandhas" and "ammas",but they finds it really hard to spend for someone whom they left in old age home.let me ask you something,from where these so called "social service" word originated from?.The word would have got no meaning at all,If we were born "Moses".I Remember the line which, the famous actor kamalhaasan once said,after tsunami affected the whole of coastal areas,He said "Though the tsunami took away the life of thousands,It left something called humanity in the minds of those in the shore!".,It may sound weird,but,yeah may beits true that we need some N number of tsunami to realize the S'H'IVAM Within us.