Saturday, May 1, 2010

Yeh Kya Family hain Yaar..!! ;)

                 I should start this post only with a biggggggg HA HA HA for those who think ,What I am going to mention is highly impossible or utter stupidity.some may think ,this is one "no need"criteria at this age.but some things(rules) are always an exception for an "utter stupid" case like me.Thought I can upload my views in to the mind of some  "non-existing" characters,turning it in to "once upon a time there lived a radha.."type.But why there is a need for radha, when the character which owns the royality for these thoughts is still alive typing down all this.Well,its one among those dead night discussions.But this time..err,Its on life partners.For all those who wonder,Is it really such an important thing to discuss in the mid past night,I can say,Discussing on soren and BJP or Obama and Wall street or Next CM of tamilnadu is in noway going to give a clean chit to those problems...atleast,Its more worth to discuss about future than all those unsolvable.It started this way,she was telling something about her friend's serious search for a life partner and about the kind of person he is expecting for and How family life is turning in to one parliament session nowadays .My friend said She desperately wanna attend the marriage of some three persons in her life,One that friend of hers,another its me (oh!!God..) followed by one class mate of ours..the talk was on what kinda life partner we will be expecting for?!,Well I was telling her that the only thing I will be expecting from my partner is being truthful.Its not that the person should be one half-sibling of harishchandra.Then,Truthful in the sense?!!..err,let him smoke If he wish,let him drink If he want to ,let him sight even the worst figure in the whole world,but its just that I should be knowing his favourite brand name,its just that I should be knowing what attracted him the most in that girl ;).She said,what am talking about is just like watching the movie "sillunu oru kaadhal".No way!!Its something my life,Its should be unique,why should i be living a cinematic life?Why should I be a kundhavi,rather Am just an aishwarya,n this is what my way of thinking towards life..Come on,No one in the world can be Rama,infact he himself can't be one!.Just point out at person who had never even seen a girl before his marriage,Then i will accept my way of thinking is wrong..Err,the next question "what will you do if that person wish to go with another girl,at one point of life?".well,here is my reply,I will say "yes"!!.She,"on what basis?!"..Me "first of all,I will try to find out whether its a normal lust or really he finds something different in her,If that is lust,I will try to make that person realize it or if it is the next option ,he fits in to,My answer will be ,yes!!". Wait!!I think you readers for sure as of by now will be googling for a suitable label to tag the disease am suffering from :).PJs apart,well a question may arise,will this be possible when it comes to a practical case?!.But,what else does matters for a "Wonderful FAMILY life" than understanding your partner completely.If you gonna think ,it sounds like those stupid "sacrifice" concept that those age old characters in those "puraanas" did.All I can say is,may be that is where the chemistry of relationship lies.Come on yaar,how can you really enjoy the life and sense it in each and every nerve of yours,when its is not the Real "YOU" who is living it..That "YOU" is there in everyone but its just that the people always thinks of it only as "ME and MINE".Not all the times the mind will think from others point of view when it comes to a problem involving themself.

(P.S) For all those mind ,which think like,Is she really behind someone to write to this extent of 'stupidity'?

Ans:Its not that the the mind need always an experience to write on something,at times a simple but deep thinking will do.For a mind with passion over thoughts there is no boundaries:).